Our happiness is not just a personal experience, it is often passed on to the people around us. It’s almost like when a pebble falls into the water causing ripples around it. In a similar way, our words, our actions, and our behaviours affect the ones around us, who in turn affect the ones who come into contact with them, and so on.

I can think about how my own mood is influenced by the lady at the Starbucks drive through who smiles, is happy, and is kind versus the one who is bitter, miserable, or rude. In both situations, a complete stranger’s attitude has the power to impact my own! And I now may pass it on to my friends, my parents, and the people around me.

While our emotions shouldn’t be at mercy of other people, our mind is something we do and can have control over. It’s important to note how our irked behaviours, moods, and attitudes aren’t something people like to keep up with. I can think about the times I have influenced my mood to my family, people like my parents and my sister. When I am in a bad mood, it doesn’t take a while for them to feel the same way. And when I am happy and buoyant, so are they!

With every new day that arrives, and with each new day we wake up, we have the power to touch on lives. We all want to have a good time. We all want to hear good news. None of us want to spend our life in doom and gloom. Let’s be the change we wish to see in the world.

-SaaniaSparkle 🧚🏻‍♀️

316 responses to “The Power of Positive People”

  1. joshlangston Avatar
    joshlangston

    Being positive is one of the best investments a human being can make. It costs nothing, yet it returns stunning dividends in no time at all. But it’s a good idea to keep investing in it as often as possible.

    Liked by 3 people

  2. Smiling At Destiny Avatar
    Smiling At Destiny

    Indeed !! Everybody talks about the “need / prevelige” of having people around as punching bags for us to vent out our negativity, not realizing what a toll it takes on that person. About time we stop cribbing, be thankful for what we have and spread as much positivity as we can – the world never needed it more !!

    Liked by 3 people

  3. lindaswriting139996633 Avatar
    lindaswriting139996633

    Wonderful post! Every pebble of positive thinking creates a chain reaction!

    Liked by 2 people

  4. Eromonsele Emmanuel Avatar
    Eromonsele Emmanuel

    I promise to smile more often now! Great writeup Saania, I’ll gradually become the change I want to see.

    P.s. I’m smiling right now. 😁

    Liked by 3 people

  5. Alejandro De La Garza Avatar
    Alejandro De La Garza

    This is so true. We are all in greater control of our own destiny than even we realize.

    Liked by 2 people

  6. zRants Avatar
    zRants

    We can all use some positive spirit right now.

    Liked by 2 people

  7. tanssityttö Avatar
    tanssityttö

    You made me think my own attitude! I have been way too pessimistic last months. I have my reasons (a good reasons, I always think) but yeat I could have take things a little bit better and not wining all the time. It doesn’t help. It just adds the stress to my partner and then to me too. If you try to be happy people around you are happy and then you all can be happy together. You can’t change everything but you can change your attitude. That’ s what I want to learn!!

    Liked by 3 people

  8. Navaparna Gautam Avatar
    Navaparna Gautam

    This is truly amazing, i love the way you swipe your sweetest feelings in your philosophical website world…. You inspire people and you know, i am encouraged by your writings…

    Liked by 3 people

  9. Redoy Hossain Avatar
    Redoy Hossain

    I really love to read it. Positivity gives more power someone’s life😊.

    Liked by 4 people

  10. zakarrie Avatar
    zakarrie

    So very true. I know someone whose smile lights up a whole room; people gather around it like a fire on a winter’s night. The opposite is twice as true…inciting their irritation (let alone anger) is so chilling, it all-but freezes the blood in your veins. An extreme example, I know—but nonetheless true—the impact of their mood on everyone around them is staggering. I couldn’t agree with you more, Saania.🌹

    Liked by 3 people

  11. xlcrgirl Avatar
    xlcrgirl

    Wonderful you did an awesome job and so inspirational

    Liked by 2 people

  12. wheatypetesworld Avatar
    wheatypetesworld

    It ain’t what you do, it’s the way that you do it… gotta love people who are just really good at what they do just because they go about it in a mindful way. Found an hotel receptionist like this recently.

    Liked by 3 people

  13. BoardFlak Avatar
    BoardFlak

    We all need to be aware of how we interact with the world. Once those ripples began to spread we can no longer control them, so we need to be sure we start the right kind of ripples.

    Now that The Peaceful Pub has closed down, my blog is:
    https://farragoexpress.wordpress.com/

    Liked by 2 people

  14. facetioussoup aka MLWA Avatar
    facetioussoup aka MLWA

    Reblogged this on Momentary Lapse Of Sanity.

    Liked by 2 people

  15. gabychops Avatar
    gabychops

    I read this again and I agree with you to a point. As far as I am concern, we should not inflict our moods on other people, including our family. Perhaps, when you are grown up you will realize that it is important not to be the person who on walking into the room seems to switch the light off. There is also no good to jump for joy when someone else has a headache. It is all about being aware of other people around you. Apologies for my lengthy diatribe.
    Thank you for your kind comments about my posts. Despite the above, I do admire you greatly.
    Joanna

    Liked by 3 people

  16. PUTEREA OAMENILOR POZITIVI – STICRI Avatar
    PUTEREA OAMENILOR POZITIVI – STICRI
  17. Asmita Narute Avatar
    Asmita Narute

    Lovely..
    Enjoy the journey.😇😍

    Liked by 3 people

  18. rahjomuelvin Avatar
    rahjomuelvin

    Beautiful!

    Liked by 3 people

    1. incandescentproseblog Avatar
      incandescentproseblog

      rippals around mostly

      Liked by 3 people

  19. Kim Sa Avatar
    Kim Sa

    Having a positive vibe can have a great impact to other people. We might now know how exactly but one thing’s for sure: it will definitely change a persons bad mood 🙂
    I would love to hear your thoughts on my site as well!

    Liked by 4 people

  20. Dreamer ❤ Avatar
    Dreamer ❤

    Beautifully written Sania ♥️

    Liked by 3 people

  21. cdchase. Avatar
    cdchase.

    Yes. true.

    Liked by 3 people

  22. Pavithra_svm Avatar
    Pavithra_svm

    Can you pls do check and support my blog too! 😊♥️

    Liked by 3 people

  23. Susan Joy Clark Avatar
    Susan Joy Clark

    It’s true. I know I’m very affected by the moods of those around me. It’s hard for me to be happy when I know a friend or someone in my family isn’t happy.

    Liked by 4 people

  24. An Ordinary Girl Avatar
    An Ordinary Girl

    100%! A manifestation of this is also on social media. I used to get affected by the bitterness, hatred & negativity of a few people on my SM lists. One day, I simply un – followed them.

    Now, when I log in to social media, I go in with a happy mood & come out with a happy mood.

    Liked by 4 people

    1. mildredprincewelch Avatar
      mildredprincewelch

      “Happiness is a personal experience
      helping others through their observation
      of your personal experience.”

      _-Van Prince

      Liked by 3 people

  25. astrologers baba Khatu shyam ji Avatar
    astrologers baba Khatu shyam ji

    Astrology baba Khatu shyam call +919460519387 can you have any problem I will give you solutions only in 3 day love problem solution wife husband problem solution divorce problem solution job problem solution business loss problem solution vashikaran specialist black magic remove specialist baby problem solution home family problems solution your choice country visa problem solution your job promotion problem solution married life in problems solution call +919460519387

    Liked by 2 people

    1. incandescentproseblog Avatar
      incandescentproseblog

      umm.

      Liked by 2 people

  26. christin Avatar
    christin

    That’s a warm and wise insight, let’s be the change.

    Liked by 1 person

  27. Aadya singh Avatar
    Aadya singh

    👍

    Liked by 3 people

  28. BluntPathway Avatar
    BluntPathway

    This is so true. I usually just don’t go out to be around people if I know I am sour about life. It’s not their fault. When I am ready to be pleasant I mingle!!. Love this post.

    Liked by 2 people

  29. Chocoviv Avatar
    Chocoviv

    Spread that positivity!!

    Liked by 1 person

  30. Remontz_X Avatar
    Remontz_X

    I recently read a quote that touches on this topic: “similar to how water can’t sink a boat unless it gets inside the boat, so to should negative waves be to your mindset.” Do not allow the negativity around you sink your positive attitude!

    Liked by 2 people

  31. nitinsingh Avatar
    nitinsingh

    great writing ++++

    Liked by 1 person

  32. DrSGCombs Avatar
    DrSGCombs

    LOVE

    Liked by 1 person

    1. incandescentproseblog Avatar
      incandescentproseblog

      9-6-2008

      Haunts
      

      I thought back- deathly detail… Nation world wide enchained, butterflies inside- simple thing of one

      acting flames- at odd no light I told:

      appreciate all the eyes,

      thinking beat which friendly-

      thick deep pawn growin’ I ‘ love you

      incomplete? recognizing- warmth gave a damn

      life solution geoparsing;

      nonexcited failing to

      dragging out all – stealing – place of trust

      use fuss grew

      random out there remaining freedom

      cemetery of divorce; ” earthquakes express desire ” slide comfort caused remember.

      Open document settings
      Open publish panel
      Document

      Like

  33. Veena Hegde Bhat Avatar
    Veena Hegde Bhat

    Absolutely loved the article.Keep smiling.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. incandescentproseblog Avatar
      incandescentproseblog

      that is gr8

      Liked by 1 person

  34. Lyn Nickson Avatar
    Lyn Nickson

    This is so true. We may have a temporary change in our mood because of someone we may briefly encounter. But we may experience a semi-permanent change in who we are based on the people we hang around most. Hang around people with the qualities and traits that you WANT to develop or pick up. I always endeavor to be the dumbest person in the group or room because in this way I was sure to always learn something.

    Liked by 2 people

  35. Discovering Prudence Avatar
    Discovering Prudence

    An awesome way to explain how our words affect everything around us!!

    Liked by 2 people

  36. theteenafey Avatar
    theteenafey

    Yes! Let’s be the change we wish to see in this world. Love this and we all really do need to pass on positivity. Thank you so much for sharing this!

    Xo Tina | https://www.teenafey.com

    Liked by 2 people

  37. sakht khabar Avatar
    sakht khabar

    Wonderful Admin

    Liked by 1 person

  38. nedhamson Avatar
    nedhamson
  39. duskalert Avatar
    duskalert

    So true!

    Liked by 1 person

  40. darrellcopephotography Avatar
    darrellcopephotography

    Love this blog!

    Liked by 1 person

  41. annhmy Avatar
    annhmy

    Our moods do affect others, and we can control that. We can also control being around downers. There are some situations where misery does love company. Sometimes there isn’t room enough to get away.

    Liked by 1 person

  42. Arun Bhagat Avatar
    Arun Bhagat

    We have the power to touch lives! Let us touch them positively and spread cheer and sunshine all around! A very nice thought indeed!

    Like

Leave a comment

Latest Articles