We define mindfulness as the psychological process of bringing one’s attention to experiences occurring in the present .

Dr. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi studied this state of being and coined the term Flow.

His research suggested that money and luxury doesn’t bring people happiness.

He found that humans are at their happiest when in flow.

Now, what is this flow? 

Being completely absorbed in an activity for its own sake, giving your heightened attention to just one thing.

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This is an example of a diagram that Mihaly illustrated in one of his books :

Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience.

What this shows is that based on the intensity of challenges and skills, If what we do has a high level of challenge and we use our skills at the maximum level, then we enter the state of flow. This is a state of deep happiness, where one  exhibits their creativity, potential and be accomplished, in control with an intrinsic motivation.

Achieving the flow involves certain factors.

Choosing a task. A single task that can be done in solitude. There are endless examples like playing the piano, running, writing, dancing, singing, etc. 

Allowing enough time. Setting aside a lot of time so that the mind can be fully immersed in that one task. 

Setting clear goals. What you are doing and why you are doing it? 

Near balance of a challenge-to-skills ratio. Flows exist near the midline of boredom and anxiety. If the task is dull, you disengage. If it is too hard, fear spikes and we look for a way out. The challenge needs to be slightly greater than our skill so that we stay in the sweet spot.

The flow is important to not get distracted by little things and being able to focus on one task to complete it. It’s a great way to bring peace in our daily lives and living every moment to the fullest with lasting satisfaction.

“To be able to concentrate for a considerable time is essential to difficult achievement.” – Bertrand Russell

Saania Saxena 🙂 

134 responses to “More about Happiness…”

  1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar
    Moushmi Radhanpara

    I agree, the said ‘flow’ does help us.

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    1. Saania2806 Avatar
      Saania2806

      Indeed 🙂

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  2. Ravisingh Avatar
    Ravisingh

    superb! very well written-loved it,Saania!

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  3. Irene Avatar
    Irene

    Very nice post; Happy New Year, Saania!

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    1. Saania2806 Avatar
      Saania2806

      Thank-you so much! I wish you the same 😊

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  4. ShankySalty Avatar
    ShankySalty

    Very beautifully written…..I agree💯 🌺😊

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  5. rashu2015 Avatar
    rashu2015

    That made me think about my own state of flow. Thanks!

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  6. Winnie Avatar
    Winnie

    An insightful post!

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    1. Saania2806 Avatar
      Saania2806

      Thank-you so much! 😊

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  7. L Avatar
    L

    Something to take into consideration in the New Year. Thank You Saania!

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  8. Bible blogger Avatar
    Bible blogger

    Excellent Sania. You are a great philosophical genius.

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  9. luisa zambrotta Avatar
    luisa zambrotta

    I really enjoyed this post!
    Great and inspiring

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  10. almostmuslimah Avatar
    almostmuslimah

    Wonderful post

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  11. Shantanu Baruah Avatar
    Shantanu Baruah

    What an interesting read. Loved reading it. Thanks for the share

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    1. Saania2806 Avatar
      Saania2806

      Glad you enjoyed 🙂 please keep visiting!

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      1. Shantanu Baruah Avatar
        Shantanu Baruah

        I surely will. My pleasure

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  12. Janae Johnson Avatar
    Janae Johnson

    Interesting, I love it! ♥️

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  13. Chris Hall Avatar
    Chris Hall

    I’m always happy when I engrossed in my writing. It’s a special place and it’s definitely when I’m in the flow as you describe.

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    1. Saania2806 Avatar
      Saania2806

      That’s nice 🙂

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  14. iScriblr Avatar
    iScriblr

    What an interesting read. Loved reading it!

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  15. Rêveuse Avatar
    Rêveuse

    Well written 😊

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  16. Giulia Avatar
    Giulia

    Very interesting post Saania! I have never thought about it this way before 🙂

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  17. Madhulika Singh Avatar
    Madhulika Singh

    Well written keep it up

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  18. Inkmythoughts Avatar
    Inkmythoughts

    Very insightful if I may say, definitely food for thought.

    Ps- Sorry it’s taken me forever to finally read this.

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    1. Saania2806 Avatar
      Saania2806

      No problem! Glad you liked it!

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  19. ilonapulianauskaite Avatar
    ilonapulianauskaite

    here we go another great post from you!

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  20. etiliyle Avatar
    etiliyle

    Well done

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  21. Akshaya Thulasi Avatar
    Akshaya Thulasi

    Nice article !!!
    Informational post
    Awesome photographic representation
    Interesting blog
    Keep sharing 💙

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    1. Saania2806 Avatar
      Saania2806

      Thanks so much for all your kind comments! Do keep visiting 🙂

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  22. Betul Erbasi Avatar
    Betul Erbasi

    This is a very explanation! I have a question, though. I feel like going with the flow causes content rather than happiness. This is because we may not fell happy when something bad happens, but if we are with the flow, we will feel content. So, my question is, is it content or happiness? if latter, how do you define happiness?

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  23. Huzeyfe KIRAN Avatar
    Huzeyfe KIRAN

    Pretty insightful. Loved it 🙂

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  24. NaomYb’ Avatar
    NaomYb’

    Very well summarized with your thoughts… 🙂 happy writing !

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  25. Equipping Avatar
    Equipping

    Thanks for following my blog, and for your likes of the articles that I have published. It is a blessing for me to have such good blog friends as you.

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  26. Elizabeth Gray Avatar
    Elizabeth Gray

    When you are in a state of flow, the whole world tends to disappear around you and the concept of time is thrown out the window. It’s complete and utter immersion in something that lights you up. Such an interesting experience! Thanks for sharing. 😊

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    1. SaaniaSparkle Avatar
      SaaniaSparkle

      That’s absolutely true, and thanks for the follow!

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      1. Elizabeth Gray Avatar
        Elizabeth Gray

        You are welcome! Enjoyed reading your content.

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  27. sunniesmybunnies Avatar
    sunniesmybunnies

    Very informative and insightful 🙂

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  28. sunniesmybunnies Avatar
    sunniesmybunnies

    Be with the flow or be the flow , that is the question I want to ask myself and to others .

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  29. abetterman21 Avatar
    abetterman21

    Love the chart! Really makes me understand a lot better.

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  30. indianeskitchen Avatar
    indianeskitchen

    Nice post…again!

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  31. ilonapulianauskaite Avatar
    ilonapulianauskaite

    I do think, that the happiness is the choice, every morning we have possibility to chose our mood❤️

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  32. aruna3 Avatar
    aruna3

    Beautiful idea of FLOW.I agree with your arguments,dear!!😊😊😊absolutely true facts in your article☺☺☺🌹🌹🌹🌹

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    1. Saania2806 Avatar
      Saania2806

      Thank-you, you are very sweet 💞

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      1. aruna3 Avatar
        aruna3

        You are most welcome,dear!!

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  33. aruna3 Avatar
    aruna3

    👍👍👍👍👌👌👌👌

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  34. Jonathan Caswell Avatar
    Jonathan Caswell

    MORE LEARNED than any 14-yeAR OLD I happen to know! 😀

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  35. Victor Enesi Avatar
    Victor Enesi

    Makes sense

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  36. Sagnik Roy Avatar
    Sagnik Roy

    Hey Saania!! check out the book ‘Grit’ by Angela Duckworth!!
    Deliberate practice vs flow!!
    I hope you will like it!!

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    1. Saania2806 Avatar
      Saania2806

      Oh thanks for telling me! 😇😇
      Will do that 👍👍

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  37. Jonathan Caswell Avatar
    Jonathan Caswell

    THAT “FLOW” MUST BE DOING ITS THING TODAY. 😀

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  38. Jonathan Caswell Avatar
    Jonathan Caswell

    Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
    HAPPY IS A POET WELL-APPRECIATED! 😀

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    The city of Mercy

    Great,I like this.

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  40. Tamrindleaves Avatar
    Tamrindleaves

    Very beautiful posts interesting too

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  41. Abirbhav Avatar
    Abirbhav

    You seem to be so good in illustrating difficult concepts through a lucid graphical illustration.
    Good to have learnt something new.. Keep inspiring.. 🙂

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  42. macalder02 Avatar
    macalder02

    I enjoyed my night reading your article. It is essential to find readings like yours. To the spirit it is necessary to fill it with knowledge to enlarge the soul.

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    1. SaaniaSparkle 🧚🏻‍♀️ Avatar
      SaaniaSparkle 🧚🏻‍♀️

      Glad you did, thanks for the visit 🧚🏻‍♀️

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        macalder02

        You are welcome

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    Reblogged this on worldtraveller70.

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